Who is more responsible for spoiling children?

• Responsible for spoiling children * * We ourselves *

Spoiled child

• * There is a large number of people who say that our child has been spoiled by living among friends, the outside environment has spoiled him, if the child lies, friends have taught, if he is rude, friends have taught, if the child abuses, friends Has taught, believe me, this thinking is wrong … !!! *
• * In fact, the reason for the deterioration of the child is the non-fulfillment of the parents’ own duties. From the very beginning, the training of the child was considered an important duty. Causes Correction … !!! *
• * As soon as the baby is born, he does not go out with friends, his friends do not come to pick him up, he does not start wandering as soon as he is born, he does not smoke when he is born Attach happens and this is the period where most of the parents show inattention … !!! *
• * When a child is born, his heart and mind is a very blank piece of paper that whoever sees and hears it will hide on it. Now we have not written anything on this paper. If it was written on this paper, there would be no place for removing the evils of the time … !!! *
• * When the mother and father put their training in the child from the very beginning, this child will never be bad with the bad people, but will be the cause of correction for the bad people … !!! *

• * In our society, formal phrases are repeated in the name of training. It is a bad habit not to lie, it is a bad habit to be rude and these formal phrases never enter the child but with great responsibility, thoughtfulness and The child takes the training done with interest. We see the society. Every parent teaches the child memorized sentences but to no avail, and the reason is that there is no concern for training. Will go, is still small, and the same thought has drowned the raft … !!! *
• * While watching dramas and movies, mothers are breastfeeding their babies. On one hand, there is a baby feeder and on the other hand, there is a mobile phone. We will put cartoons on it when a child starts moving his hands and feet after listening to music, then a wave of happiness runs in the whole house. , Mobile, limited to mobile Facebook … !!! *
• * Take a look at the responsibilities of the father, then just the formal matters that the child’s expenses are being met, needs and desires are being fulfilled, busy all day work, come home and eat, give the child around and then friends I am busy and then I come home and I am busy on my mobile, in the same way, days, weeks and even years pass, so the most important period of training of this child was wasted by the parents in their own busyness, in their own fun. The children of the captives are disobedient, the children are rude, the friends spoiled them, the environment spoiled them I had … !!! *

• * Both the mother and the father have to train the child responsibly, to put themselves together, to nurture themselves, for the training of the child, the mother’s lap is the first and most important lesson that the mother should teach him from the chest. Let him pass his training on to the child, let him know Allah, let him know the Messenger of Allah, explain to him the purpose of coming into the world, teach him daily prayers, love of truth, honor in truth, virtue over truth, his Take to heart, hate lies, be ashamed of lies, believe in sin in lies, take to heart abusive, backbiting, gossip and hate, bring love and kindness to relatives. There will be religion in the mother, if the mother’s morals are good, then generations will grow up here … !!! *
• * In the same way, the father should spend some time with the child daily, ask about daily affairs, identify the right and wrong, explain the literature of the elders, respect the elders, love the poor, the spirit of helping the needy, and passion. Create in it, in front of it, this television, mobile drama, movies, etc. should not be used at all. Take him with you, teach him to meet people, encourage him to do good deeds, sit with him in his free time and narrate the events of Rasoolullah and his companions … !!! *
• * When your prince comes out of such an environment and comes to the outside world, he will never be spoiled by the outsiders, but will be a cause of improvement for them, will be a cause of good for them, wherever he will leave his goodness. Will come, wherever he goes he will leave the name of his parents … !!! *
• * And this prince is a source of pride for the parents in the world, but thanks to his good deeds and character, even after the death of the parents in the grave will be a source of comfort for them … !!! *
• * We are all committed to a positive and progressive society *

* Selection, arsl Chaudhry *

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